- there is nothing wrong with going through phases while you try and figure out who you are
- there is nothing wrong with being confused about who you are. at any point in your life
- there is nothing wrong with saying you were x identity a year ago and today saying you are something else.
it does not mean you lied
it does not mean you were doing it to be trendy
it means you changed
thats what people do over time: they change
and that’s ok
We’re children, playing the game of grown ups, they speak of jobs, of foreclosure, of loans, of bills, The little girl wears her mother’s necklace, undergarments made of lace and silk. The little boy tries to fill the shoes of his father, buttons his shirt just the same.
Our parents call each other. They’re even more terrified than we are.